{"id":14593,"date":"2017-07-24T13:39:44","date_gmt":"2017-07-24T20:39:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/?p=14593"},"modified":"2017-07-28T09:20:07","modified_gmt":"2017-07-28T16:20:07","slug":"southsides","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/?p=14593","title":{"rendered":"Southsides."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I noticed it first in Atlanta. \u00a0I mean there was hint of it, but I blamed it on the city. \u00a0The crowds, the exhaust, the towering skyscrapers.<\/p>\n<p>However, when we were standing in Biloxi, facing the Gulf of Mexico, there was no denying it.<\/p>\n<p>I stood there with my sweat-soaked shirt already stuck to my body at 9am and wondered,<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Where&#8217;s the ocean breeze?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Because there wasn&#8217;t one. \u00a0Not even enough breeze to stir a single hair on your head.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/gulf.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14595 aligncenter\" title=\"gulf\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/gulf-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/gulf-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/gulf-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--more-->It was so humid that I felt like I was breathing in water, not just looking at it. \u00a0And that didn&#8217;t change when we left Mississippi for Louisiana.<\/p>\n<p>New Orleans was dirty and fancy and sweaty, all at the same time. \u00a0Which is exactly what New Orleans is famous for.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/dirty.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14598 aligncenter\" title=\"dirty\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/dirty-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/dirty-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/dirty-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/new-orleans2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14599 aligncenter\" title=\"new orleans\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/new-orleans2-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/new-orleans2-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/new-orleans2-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Just outside the city we hit the swamps at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nps.gov\/jela\/index.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Barateria Preserve in Jean Lafitte National Historic Park<\/a>. \u00a0Where the heat and humidity becomes a living presence. \u00a0This is the side of the south so familiar to many of us from books and movies. \u00a0The images that characterize the Deep South&#8212;-the cypress and live oak and Spanish moss, the enveloping thrum of crickets and frogs and insect&#8212;-come to life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14603 aligncenter\" title=\"swamp\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bird.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14604 aligncenter\" title=\"bird\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bird-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bird-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bird-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spanish-moss.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14605 aligncenter\" title=\"spanish moss\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spanish-moss-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spanish-moss-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spanish-moss-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/lizard.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14606 aligncenter\" title=\"lizard\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/lizard-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/lizard-199x300.jpg 199w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/lizard-682x1024.jpg 682w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14607 aligncenter\" title=\"swamp\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp3-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp3-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/swamp3-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alligator.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14608 aligncenter\" title=\"alligator\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alligator-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alligator-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alligator-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Do not miss the nature preserve if you are in the New Orleans area. \u00a0Also, do not lose track of where you are in the swamp. \u00a0We wandered way off down the trails in search of alligators and attempting to get a photo of the nutria instead of just seeing them scurry away in our peripheral vision. \u00a0The result was that we were a couple miles from our car when an afternoon thunderstorm rolled up. \u00a0Luckily, Big and Middle got bored with our expedition an hour earlier and had returned to the car. \u00a0So a cell phone conversation ensued describing our location (um, we&#8217;re looking at some trees and some water and&#8230;.um, a bunch of foliage) and Big came to rescue us by driving the minivan to an access point much closer to our location. \u00a0Remember when your teens rescued you from the swamp? \u00a0No? \u00a0Don&#8217;t worry&#8212;they&#8217;ll remind you of it endlessly.<\/p>\n<p>We woke up the next morning in Baton Rouge, where my morning activities with the early risers involved a walking tour of the downtown while the sleepyheads of the family hung out in the condo. \u00a0The temperature wasn&#8217;t any more comfortable in Baton Rouge, but the city was beautiful, clean, and picturesque. \u00a0We had an amazing view from the top of the State Capitol Building of the Mississippi River flowing by the city.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/baton-rouge.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14615 aligncenter\" title=\"baton rouge\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/baton-rouge-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/baton-rouge-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/baton-rouge-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In contrast to New Orleans, the downtown was fancy without the dirty (but still sweaty). \u00a0Lots of green space, public art, historic buildings, and a riverfront with stairs right down to the water&#8217;s edge so we could put our hands in the mighty Mississippi. \u00a0Who knew this about Baton Rouge??<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/old-state-capitol.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14616 aligncenter\" title=\"old state capitol\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/old-state-capitol-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/old-state-capitol-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/old-state-capitol-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/commerce-building2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14617 aligncenter\" title=\"commerce building\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/commerce-building2-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/commerce-building2-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/commerce-building2.jpg 609w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/battery.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14621 aligncenter\" title=\"armory\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/battery-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/battery-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/battery-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/stiars2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14618 aligncenter\" title=\"stairs\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/stiars2-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/stiars2-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/stiars2-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>That, people, is the magic of travel. \u00a0If you had asked me to describe Baton Rouge before this trip, I would have drawn a complete blank. \u00a0I never would have imagined a modern southern city with shiny buildings and a large university. \u00a0There are so many sides to the South! \u00a0When I shared these thought with the kids, they looked at me funny.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well, isn&#8217;t Baton Rouge the capital of Louisiana?&#8221; \u00a0they asked.<\/p>\n<p>Oh yeah.<\/p>\n<p>I knew that.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, I knew that when I was in fourth grade. \u00a0I guess I forgot it somewhere along the line.<\/p>\n<p>Eh.<\/p>\n<p>If I wasn&#8217;t prepared for Baton Rouge, I had actually read a bit about our next stop. \u00a0I picked up a book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/2013\/05\/28\/186469381\/the-son-a-texas-saga-with-guilt-and-gore-to-go-around\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;The Son&#8221; <\/a>by Phillip Meyer to get a glimpse of Texas. \u00a0&#8220;The Son&#8221; \u00a0is a sweeping historical fiction that covers the state from the days of the early settlers&#8217; battles with the Native Americans to the war with Mexico to the oil boom.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t recommend it.<\/p>\n<p>Not because it isn&#8217;t a good story or because it isn&#8217;t well-written. \u00a0It&#8217;s just an incredibly depressing look at human behavior. \u00a0 But the book did make the stop in Beaumont to visit<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lamar.edu\/spindletop-gladys-city\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\"> Spindletop Gladys City Boom town Museum<\/a> more meaningful. \u00a0The discovery of the Spindletop oilfield changed the direction of development in Texas and the Lucas Gusher was the largest gusher ever seen at that time. \u00a0Now you can visit a replica village of the boomtown and a wooden oil derrick similar to those in use at the time of the Lucas gusher. \u00a0Which is worth a stop if you are attempting to drive across Texas. \u00a0Because driving across Texas takes a long, long, long. long time. \u00a0So get out and give Spindletop a look over.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spindletop.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14631 aligncenter\" title=\"spindletop\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spindletop-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spindletop-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/spindletop-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As we wandered between the printing press, the barber shop, and the saloon at Spindletop I realized I could breathe again. \u00a0I mean, I was breathing in the dust and debris kicked up by a hot southern wind, but still. \u00a0It was a breeze. \u00a0A Texas breeze. \u00a0This, then, was the beginning of the Southwest. \u00a0The humidity was gone, replaced by a gusting heat similar to standing in front of a hair dryer.<\/p>\n<p>But by the time we arrived later that night in San Antonio, the sun was sinking and the Riverwalk was a cool oasis. \u00a0I spent my senior year of high school living in San Antonio and I always promised myself I&#8217;d get back to visit again. \u00a0I didn&#8217;t expect it to be more than twenty years later with 4 kids in tow. \u00a0The Riverwalk was as wonderful as I remembered it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14632 aligncenter\" title=\"riverwalk\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk2-300x180.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk2-300x180.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk2.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14633 aligncenter\" title=\"riverwalk\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk3-285x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"285\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk3-285x300.jpg 285w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/riverwalk3.jpg 428w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 285px) 100vw, 285px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Although I use the term &#8220;remembered&#8221; very loosely because I got us lost and we wandered around the sidewalks and bridges until Middle spotted a late night ice cream shop up on the street level. \u00a0(Thank you Mr. Ice Cream for being open until 11pm.) \u00a0Which was a great excuse to head upstairs, have ice cream, and make our way back to our hotel the normal way. \u00a0You know, using street signs and intersections and other normal ways to orient yourself. \u00a0And without the Yellow Crowned Night Heron eyeballing me for walking past him, baffled and disoriented, for the third time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/yellow-crowned-night-heron.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14638 aligncenter\" title=\"yellow crowned night heron\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/yellow-crowned-night-heron-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/yellow-crowned-night-heron-199x300.jpg 199w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/yellow-crowned-night-heron-679x1024.jpg 679w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We settled for the night at the Riverwalk Plaza hotel and the kids swam in the rooftop pool under a dark swath of Texas sky. \u00a0The American flag of the Tower Life building flapped overhead. \u00a0Ah, Texas. \u00a0Ah, America. \u00a0Ah, a hotel that leaves stacks of towels by the pool so that you can smuggle 6 or 8 towels back to your room and everyone gets a dry towel after their shower. \u00a0Instead of having to use the damp towel from the person who showered before you. \u00a0Or settle for a dry washcloth. \u00a0It was a glorious night.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/flag2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14655 aligncenter\" title=\"flag2\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/flag2-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/flag2-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/flag2.jpg 216w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>By the next morning I had a map and a plan and we walked along the Riverwalk to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thealamo.org\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">Alamo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alamo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14640 aligncenter\" title=\"alamo\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alamo-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alamo-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alamo-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The Alamo is probably the most famous tourist site in Texas and at this point, the plot of &#8220;The Son&#8221; became really relevant. \u00a0Sure, it&#8217;s a fiction book but it maybe gave a more honest depiction of all the land-grabbing going on in Texas in the 1800&#8217;s than some of the information provided at the Alamo. \u00a0Hard to say that Texans had earned the sole right to that land any more than the Mexicans or Spanish before them. \u00a0 Never mind the Native American tribes&#8212;-from Comanches to Tonkawas to Lipan Apaches&#8212;-caught up in the fighting, too. \u00a0But to the victor go the spoils. \u00a0And the right to tell the final tale. \u00a0Which is the dismal conclusion of &#8220;The Son.&#8221; \u00a0And, sometimes, of life.<\/p>\n<p>I told you it was a depressing book.<\/p>\n<p>Kind of like the parts of Texas between San Antonio and New Mexico. \u00a0We passed through an oil heavy region that wasn&#8217;t exactly the quaint reproduction boomtown of Spindletop\/Gladys City. \u00a0More like a dry wasteland dotted with oil machinery and flames flickering against the horizon.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abqjournal.com\/929576\/exxonmobil-pays-5-6b-for-oilgas-leases-in-nm.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14646 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/oil2-300x163.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"163\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/oil2-300x163.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/oil2.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.expressnews.com\/business\/eagle-ford-energy\/article\/Apache-discovers-immense-oil-and-gas-field-9207444.php#photo-10888716\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com\/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQvT9NElj91xPRxWsMVYSnLX3DJWrKzv0D4AvZN_ZV5wAka6bZ3\" alt=\"Image result for oil rigs along I-10 thru texas\" width=\"297\" height=\"169\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Which it&#8217;s hard to complain about when you&#8217;re on a road trip across country on cheap fossil fuels. \u00a0It&#8217;s such a complicated world, isn&#8217;t it? \u00a0Can&#8217;t throw stones when you drive gas houses.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">We were pushing hard to make Whites City, New Mexico before nightfall. \u00a0We pulled up in the &#8220;city&#8221; to find a restaurant, a post office\/gift shop\/grocery store combo, and abandoned adobe buildings.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14660 aligncenter\" title=\"white city \" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-3-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-3-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14661 aligncenter\" title=\"white city \" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-2-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-2-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-2-1024x681.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14662 aligncenter\" title=\"white city\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/white-city-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Luckily we didn&#8217;t come for &#8220;city&#8221; entertainment. \u00a0We didn&#8217;t need Riverwalks or late night ice cream parlors because Whites City is right at the entrance to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nps.gov\/cave\/index.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Carlsbad Caverns.<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_4624.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14665 aligncenter\" title=\"IMG_4624\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_4624-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_4624-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_4624-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I planned a \u00a0lot of the trip around specific <em>places<\/em> I just had to see, but this part of the trip was planned around a specific <em>event.<\/em> And there were a bunch of other people there to see this event, too. \u00a0We sat tucked in an ancient alcove, the heat of the day beginning to radiate out of the rocks,\u00a0surrounded by the vast Chihuahuan desert, and waited. \u00a0And waited.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14678 aligncenter\" title=\"carlsbad2\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad2-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad2-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad2-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14677 aligncenter\" title=\"carlsbad\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/carlsbad-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14666 aligncenter\" title=\"bat cave\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave-1023x683.jpg 1023w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave.jpg 1894w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14667 aligncenter\" title=\"bat cave 2\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave-2-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave-2-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-cave-2-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">We were there when the first bat fluttered out and the park ranger called for silence. \u00a0We were sitting there on the stone benches as approximately 400,000 bats left for the night, careening into the dusk. \u00a0It was this same massive evening bat flight that Jim White spotted back in 1898, leading him to the entrance of the cave and discovery of Carlsbad Caverns. \u00a0It occurs night after night, April through October, year after year after year.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/id\/12275177\/ns\/us_news-environment\/t\/no-more-cameras-carlsbad-caverns\/#.WXYVzITyvIU\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14668 aligncenter\" title=\"bat flight by Walter Meayers Edwards\" src=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-flight-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-flight-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/ruffledfeathersandspilledmilk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/bat-flight.jpg 474w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">What is the word for that feeling? \u00a0That feeling you get when you&#8217;ve waited for a long time to experience something. \u00a0When you&#8217;ve imagined what it would be like, yet it is so much more. \u00a0When you stand before something grand, touch the past, witness an eternal cycle. \u00a0What <em>is<\/em> that word?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Maybe there isn&#8217;t a word for it. \u00a0Maybe there&#8217;s just the sound of whirring wings and almost inaudible chirps as darkness seeps over the lip of the cave. \u00a0The sound of frogs thrumming in the swamp or the splash of your child&#8217;s cannonball into a rooftop pool.\u00a0\u00a0Maybe there&#8217;s just the thick feeling of sucking sluggish Gulf air into your lungs or the sting of sand pelting your skin beside an oil rig. \u00a0 Maybe there aren&#8217;t enough words for all the sides of the South.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">But there is always the laundry. \u00a0So later that night I tucked my kids into the only motel 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